
If dying is a natural part of living,
why does it hurt so much to lose
someone dear? Why so much pain?
Is it because I'm selfish
and don't want to be deprived
of the dying one's presence?
Or is it because I don't want
to be reminded of my own end?
The fear of letting go of myself.
The mystery I still cannot understand
is this. How is it that we gain ourselves
by letting go of who we think we are?